Explain how the Ten Guidelines of constructive conflict management may be used in changing the same scenario from a negative experience to a positive experience? 1: express anger directly and with kindness. 2: Check out your interpretation of others’ Behaviors. 3: to avoid attacks, Use “i” statements. 4: avoid mixed, or double messages. 5: When you Can, Choose the time and place Carefully. 6: address a specific issue, ask for a specific Change, and Be open to Compromise. 7: Be Willing to Change yourself. 8: don’t try to Win. 9: Practice Forgiveness. 10: End the Argument.  Contempt: The wife may say that her husband is worthless and cannot find time to be with his family and spend some quality time with them. Criticism: The husband criticizes his wife for the expenses that he must take care of. The husband scoffs his wife for exorbitant shopping, and he has to work harder to deal with those expenses. Defensiveness: In turn, the wife defends that she does all that to match with her friends and cannot afford to come empty-handed without shopping. Stonewalling: When the husband asks in turn whether it's all essential and is it the need or the wants you are running after. The wife might reject to answer these and say you are giving reasons and not allowing me to be free. What is similar and difference?

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Explain how the Ten Guidelines of constructive conflict management may be used in changing the same scenario from a negative experience to a positive experience?

1: express anger directly and with kindness.

2: Check out your interpretation of others’ Behaviors.

3: to avoid attacks, Use “i” statements.

4: avoid mixed, or double messages.

5: When you Can, Choose the time and place Carefully.

6: address a specific issue, ask for a specific Change, and Be open to Compromise.

7: Be Willing to Change yourself.

8: don’t try to Win.

9: Practice Forgiveness.

10: End the Argument. 

Contempt: The wife may say that her husband is worthless and cannot find time to be with his family and spend some quality time with them.

Criticism: The husband criticizes his wife for the expenses that he must take care of. The husband scoffs his wife for exorbitant shopping, and he has to work harder to deal with those expenses.

Defensiveness: In turn, the wife defends that she does all that to match with her friends and cannot afford to come empty-handed without shopping.

Stonewalling: When the husband asks in turn whether it's all essential and is it the need or the wants you are running after. The wife might reject to answer these and say you are giving reasons and not allowing me to be free.

What is similar and difference?

 

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