UlmerT MFT 8307-1 Challenges of relationship development.asd

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Running head: RELATIONSHIP FORMATION ULMERT MFT 8307-1 NORTHCENTRAL UNIVERSITY ASSIGNMENT COVER SHEET Student: Tamara Ulmer THIS FORM MUST BE COMPLETELY FILLED IN Follow these procedures: If requested by your instructor, please include an assignment cover sheet. This will become the first page of your assignment. In addition, your assignment header should include your last name, first initial, course code, dash, and assignment number. This should be left justified, with the page number right justified. For example: UlmerT MFT 8307-1 Save a copy of your assignments: You may need to re-submit an assignment at your instructor’s request. Make sure you save your files in accessible location. Academic integrity: All work submitted in each course must be your own original work. This includes all assignments, exams, term papers, and other projects required by your instructor . Knowingly submitting another person’s work as your own, without properly citing the source of the work, is considered plagiarism. This will result in an unsatisfactory grade for the work submitted or for the entire course. It may also result in academic dismissal from the University.
RELATIONSHIP FORMATION ULMERT MFT 8307-1 2 MFT 8307 Dr. M. Shah The Couple Life Cycle in MFT Discussion: Modern Challenges of Relationship Formation Faculty Use Only <Faculty comments here> <Faculty Name> <Grade Earned> <Date Graded>
RELATIONSHIP FORMATION ULMERT MFT 8307-1 3 Tamara Ulmer Discussion: Modern Challenges of Relationship Formation Northcentral University Discussion: Modern Challenges of Relationship Formation
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RELATIONSHIP FORMATION ULMERT MFT 8307-1 4 The purpose of this assignment was for this student to offer my thoughts on the changes in how relationships are formed and then explore possible marriage and family techniques I would use if I was working with a couple that was struggling with a newly formed relationship. As I read the assignments, a theme emerged on the use of social media, internet, and emails as an avenue that was used for the development of relationships (Fox & Anderegg, 2014; Specher, 2009). Additionally, Specher (2009) indicates that a study conducted by “Parks and Floyd (1996)” found that 61 % of internet users developed a relationship with an individual that they had meet online. The use and development of electronic devices, and internet site appears to be the major change in relationship development. A question came to mind as I thought about the use of internet and social media: What is the appeal to connect with someone using an app, internet, or social media versus a face to face interaction? The use of social media can offer connections and the ability to stay in touch with family and friends, particularly in the military where family member is often time deployed in various locations over the world. Additionally, studies have indicated that an advantage of internet services, consist of individuals being able to express their thoughts, beliefs and views more openly than if they were face to face. For example, if a person is shy they may be less likely to engage in conversation or express their thoughts in its entirety. Whereas, the use of the internet allows the individual to express themselves completely without interruption (Hertlein, 2012). The disadvantage is that there is a lack of non-verbal communication and messages are not clear, and when a commitment is made the little nuances that one might have is not addressed. As a result, many individuals may choose to have a sexual relationship, or choose to cohabitate soon after their first face to face meeting, resulting in relationship issues particularly high levels of conflict, and communication issues. I would use two primary MFT techniques to assist in development of strong relationships. John Gottman’s: The 4 Horseman of relationships and the strong Marital House and Gary Chapmans: The Five Love Languages. The rationale of this would be to allow the individuals to develop an
RELATIONSHIP FORMATION ULMERT MFT 8307-1 5 understanding of what can cause relationships to end and how to communicate in a way that would allow their partner to feel heard, understood and respected.
RELATIONSHIP FORMATION ULMERT MFT 8307-1 6 References Fox, J., & Anderegg, C. (2014). Romantic relationship stages and social networking sites: Uncertainty reduction strategies and perceived relational norms on Facebook. Retrieved from: http://proxy1.ncu.edu/login?url=http://search.ebscohost.com/login.aspx? direct=true&db=bth&AN=99517975&site=eds-live Hertlein, K. M. (2012). Digital dwelling: Technology in couple and family relationships. Family Relations, 61(3), 374-387. Hertlein, K. M., & Ancheta, K. (2014). Advantages and Disadvantages of Technology in Relationships: Findings from an Open-Ended Survey. The Qualitative Report , 19 (11), 1- 11. Retrieved from https://nsuworks.nova.edu/tqr/vol19/iss11/2 Sprecher, S. (2009). Relationship initiation and formation on the internet. Retrieved From: http://proxy1.ncu.edu/login?url=http://search.ebscohost.com/login.aspx? direct=true&db=edb&AN=44747187&site=eds-live
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