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1 Seasons of marriage Fall and Winter Student's Name: Institutional Affiliation: Course: Instructor: Date:

2 Seasons of marriage Fall and Winter The Fall Season of Marriage 1. Describe the "Fall" season of marriage. The pursuits that usher couples into their autumnal matrimony are the most significant factors contributing to the autumn season of marriage, which is unquestionably neglectful or doing nothing at all. The underlying presumption seems that the marriage will work itself out. Due to their diverse interests, husbands and wives often overlook to take the necessary steps to ensure a good marriage. Consequently, they gradually move apart (Inman, 2023). A crisis, such as an extramarital affair, may shock them into realizing that their marriage is in the fall season, but in actuality, they had been in the fall season for weeks or even months before the crisis. 2. How do people get into this season? There are many different ways that people celebrate the arrival of fall. In the fall, people often feel emotionally depleted and start to suffer feelings of sadness, uncertainty, and rejection. Fall is an ordinary time for couples to be blissfully ignorant that they are experiencing the beginnings of romantic feelings (Inman, 2023). As the season progresses, the pair starts emotionally disengaging and drifting apart. Couples sense an underlying tension, but they can't put their finger on what it is. Disconnection and feelings of being uncared for: When couples acknowledge problems, they don't ignore them. Those close to them who have spent time in the fall season may be the first to notice the changes. 3. How do people get out of this season? People emerge from the fall by independently determining the source of their emotions. They pause to consider the marriage, their sentiments, and their reasons behind it (Timothy-Springer & Johnson, 2018). Another way individuals escape the autumn season is by not blaming each other. Assaulting the other team with a backhand stroke to validate emotions is a form of finger-pointing. It is the people's fault that they do not value the memory of a

3 single day. According to research (Timothy-Springer & Johnson, 2018), couples are more adept at pointing out each other's shortcomings than the general public. People can admit they've failed and forgive their partners when they work through past and present issues. 4. What are three things you can learn from the Fall marriage season? My experience with married couples has shown me that poor communication is the primary cause of marital dissolution during autumn. Everything revolves around me: my reactions to events, my interpretations of those events, my perspective on things, and my innermost thoughts, feelings, needs, and desires. Humans yearn to be acknowledged and understood (Kakhramonovich, 2021). No more crucial part of communication goes unnoticed than that. In addition, the most important thing is our interpretation of those circumstances, not the circumstances we face. Success or failure in every relationship depends on how we see things, particularly marriage. Therefore, a positive outlook may accounted for by adopting a more optimistic frame of mind. 5. Describe some examples of the Fall season of marriage from your personal experience with people you know. From what I have seen and heard from others, Joan and Willy's marriage only began eight months ago, yet they already talk about how it was like an autumn wedding. Trust was broken or never established during the first months of their marriage since their families were allowed to step in. Their efforts to mend their connection are based on the biblical mandate to forsake one's parents and rely on one another. Another couple with 19 years of marriage is Patrick and Tricia. Their nomadic lifestyle is a result of Patrick's military service. Problems have arisen in their marriage throughout the late autumn and early winter. Following a year of intense rehabilitation efforts, they are making good progress toward a return to spring (Timothy-Springer & Johnson, 2018). It

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4 became clear that they may lose during his one-year deployment to Iraq. 6. From a Christian worldview, describe some strategies you might implement to address the Fall marriage season. My marriage's emotional climate may significantly improve with the help of specific strategies that will motivate me to embrace good mindsets and behaviors. Our attitudes and actions will shape my and my spouse's emotions. I will be able to keep and strengthen my marriage with the help of these biblically-based strategies. Instead of focusing on winning arguments, I discover more practical answers and have more connections with my spouse when I strive to solve problems. The second option is to learn how fulfilling it is to contribute to my partner's success. According to Timothy-Springer and Johnson (2018), we need a significant change in attitude. The employment of positive influence is another crucial strategy. Looking back at my past experiences and considering my present situation, I don't think my husband will decide to come along. The Winter Season of Marriage 1. Describe the "Winter" season of marriage. A season of bitterness is the winter season of a marriage. It is common for couples to feel hopeless and pessimistic about their relationship's future. Wives and husbands often react defensively to every perceived offense because they are fragile and too sensitive. When couples engage in unhealthy habits, wallow in self-pity, and fail to motivate themselves, they may unwittingly drag out the Winter season. Catalysts for changing seasons can include external trauma, family strife, personal crises, retreats, or spiritual encounters. A couple may not be able to prevent all triggers, but they influence how they react to those that do (Timothy- Springer & Johnson, 2018). They might be experiencing a tough patch right now. 2. How do people get into this season? People approach the marriage winter season in a wide range of ways. Discordant and

5 harmful acts characterize most of the responses. Intentionally or unintentionally, they meant to hurt the spouse. Some of Winter's behaviors include becoming confrontational, using harsh words, or just being silent. On some level, the conscious or unconscious mind wants to hurt the other partner by being mean or violent (Aleksiun et al., 2020). Some spouses may be unhappy and want to move on. Conversely, there is a positive side to the winter season. According to Chapman, couples tend to maintain a positive outlook. Instead of just lying down and dying in the snow, people actively seek help. Forgiveness frees us to love more deeply, and trials teach us to be patient and resilient. 3. How do people get out of this season? Seeking counsel might help people escape the cold season. Pick a couple that has been together for a decade or more. At some point in their life, most people will face adversity. No one else can save or fulfill a person as a spouse can, but people still put unreasonable expectations on their partners even though they should be seeking what the Lord can give from their spouse. Before they even ask, they assume they will be attentive, understanding, and mindful of their requirements (Timothy-Springer & Johnson, 2018). The Lord is the only one who can bring them this kind of solace. Their insatiable appetite can only sated by a God who is infinitely powerful. 4. What are three things that you can learn from the Winter season of marriage? During the worst hour of my marriage, I learned to embrace the promise, love without conditions, and forgive without conditions. At some time in most marriages, problems will arise. Any signs of annoyance, frustration, or emotional distance between you and your spouse do not indicate a failing marriage (Inman, 2023). A connection is developing between you. Whether we're well or sick, wealthy or poor, there's a reason we vow to love and cherish one

6 another until death separates us. If we want to get off the boat someday, we must pledge. 5. Describe some examples of the Winter season of marriage from your personal experience with people you know . From my observations, I can say that couples who are afraid to confront their differences are enduring the "winter season" of marriage. Squabbles break out in conversation, and the partners go silent. Nobody feels like they belong anywhere. Two individuals seem to be residing in different igloos. For example, George is a married man of 44 years standing in Jacksonville, Florida, who has been with his wife for 18 years (Aleksiun et al., 2020). The state of his marriage is somewhat disheartening. He is emotionally distant, although he knows he should love his wife. His wife shows no affection, admiration, or devotion for him. 6. From a Christian worldview, describe some strategies you might implement to address the Winter marriage season. One approach I may use to tackle the winter season of marriage is to deal with past failures. While this strategy is helpful for married couples, those who tie the knot in the winter will have to spend extra time reflecting on and learning from their mistakes. Focusing on the here, now, and future is more important than dwelling on the past. Couples who base their outlook on biblical principles tend to be more optimistic. To bring glory to God via serving and helping one's spouse reach their God-given potential is the ultimate goal of marriage (Kakhramonovich, 2021). The second strategy is to figure out what my partner's "love language" is. One must master speaking another person's "love language" to make them feel loved.

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7 References Aleksiun, N., Banyai, V., Faure, L. H., Judd, R., Ofer, D., Reuss, A., & Bartash, V. (2020). Jewish and Romani Families in the Holocaust and its Aftermath . Rutgers University Press. https://www.academia.edu/download/65154872/Jewish_and_Romani_Families_na_acade mia.pdf Inman, J. S. (2023). Evaluating the Influence of Reciprocity of Meeting Partner's Temperament Needs in Terms of Marital Intimacy. https://digitalcommons.liberty.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=5744&context=doctoral

8 Kakhramonovich, A. A. (2021). Cognitive And Linguocultural Features of The English Wedding Ceremony. Zien Journal of Social Sciences and Humanities , 3 , 49-54. https://www.zienjournals.com/index.php/zjssh/article/download/401/303 Timothy-Springer, R., & Johnson, E. J. (2018). A qualitative study on the experiences of married couples. Journal of Human Behavior in the Social Environment , 28 (7), 889-902. https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Emmanuel-Johnson- 7/publication/324536215_QUALITATIVE_STUDY_ON_THE_COPING_STRATEGIES _TO_THE_CHALLENGES_OF_MARITAL_LIFE/links/5cb4b8fd92851c8d22edf6dc/Q UALITATIVE-STUDY-ON-THE-COPING-STRATEGIES-TO-THE-CHALLENGES- OF-MARITAL-LIFE.pdf

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