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Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secre he’s with you, his eagerness to be with you, and how much initiative he makes to contact you (that last one is vitally important). You can gauge your level of importance to a man based on how proactive he is about securing your infatuation. In other words, if a man is making sincere and consistent attempts to make you want him, there’s a high chance you’ve taken up a place of importance in his mind. In the early stages of a courtship, a man (especially one with a bit more experience with women) will try to gauge your level of interest in him while he evalu- ates your potential importance all at the same time. Showing your infatuation too early reveals your high level of interest in him before he has had the opportu- nity to decipher your significance to him. Remember, men want that which is a challenge to attain. If you hastily make him the center of your universe...what challenge is there? ST TR Y T N AT g (o B o TXCE TV (o B For your own peace of mind (and his), it’s important to be flexible and don’t sweat the minor details when it comes to dating. Be adaptable to the chaotic cir- cumstances that come with a new romance and courtship. Relationship-minded men know that an adaptable woman makes for a better long-term part- ner than a stubborn one.