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Conflict is a part of life.
I.
Introduction
Conflict is a wide concept that is an inevitable part of life. Conflict involves a
misunderstanding or opposition between two or more parties. A conflict can happen
anywhere and between anyone. While conflict is not always a negative thing as it can
provide growing opportunities, it is always best to address the conflict and utilize
appropriate ways to navigate towards the healthiest resolution. Several years ago, I spent
many nights at the hospital with my daughter as she is medically complex. I vividly
remember one night when she stopped tolerating her tube feeds while she was in the
intensive care unit. I called for the nurse to page the doctor as I was concerned with her
becoming dehydrated. The doctor eventually found his way to the room, it was late at
night, so I tried to remain patient with him. As he observed my daughter, he simply said
“well, she has Down Syndrome so…” I was an exhausted, worried, and very angry
mother by that point and demanded he give her fluids to prevent further intervention. The
doctor declined my request and left only several nurses to visit later and determined she
was so dehydrated after several failed attempts to locate an accessible vein, she ultimately
had to insert one through her scalp. My daughter, at the time, was only 8 months old and
had already endured some of the hardest days prior to this. I was furious as I believed if
the doctor had listened to me rather than concern himself with one of her irrelevant
diagnosis’s, my daughter would not have had to endure that extra pain.
This paper will focus on three topics. Power and conflict, Negotiation skills and resolving
conflict, and apologies, forgiveness, and reconciliation. In our text, “conflict as "a struggle over
values and claims to scarce status, power, and resources in which the opponents aim to
neutralize, injure, or eliminate this rival" (Jandt,2021). Negotiating and resolving conflict is
crucial to beneficial outcomes.” A successful win–win negotiation strengthens the relationship
between the parties (Jandt 2021). Apologies, forgiveness, and reconciliation is a multi-step
process. While not all apologies are forgiven, the acknowledgement of personal responsibility
and any offensive behavior is the first step to creating a successful resolution. Forgiveness is an
emotional and cognitive process, while forgiveness does not require you to forget, it does
provide the space to move forward by agreeing to a resolution or simply agreeing to disagree.
Lastly, reconciliation is the final step of acknowledging both parties’ contribution to the conflict
and choosing to move forward from the conflict. It’s a much more complicated, involved process
that can include forgiveness but moves beyond it. For-givenness is solo; reconciliation is a joint
venture (Rusbult et al., 2).
II.
Power and Conflict. The conflict of power between parents and healthcare
providers is more frequent than imagined.
A.
“Conflicts between healthcare professionals and relatives regularly occur in
matters such as whether or not to limit life-sustaining treatment, the
appropriate time for patients to be discharged from the intensive care unit
(ICU) and the patients’ death.” (Intensive Care Med. 2003;29:1489–1497)
B.
This shows the strain on both the healthcare professional and relatives that
prompt a conflict. This article focuses on a situation where the patient
themselves is unlikely to communicate their wants or needs, leaving the
family to be their voice. The healthcare professional holds the power of
treatment, the relatives challenging that becomes a conflict.
III.
Negotiation skills and resolving conflicts with others.
A.
“When a confrontation becomes necessary, a team approach is best.
The communication should be direct and clear, and the physician
should be given a chance to respond at the end of the complaints but
not before. The goal is to correct the situation and look for the good to
build upon.” (USF Health Online 2023)
B.
This example of negotiation provides both sides of the conflict to
openly address their concerns without interruption. The negotiation is
to hear both the conflict at hand and the feedback from the person
confronted. Many times, a conflict is only one sided because the
opposing party is unaware of any concerns. Open communication
provides negotiation possibilities.
IV.
Apologies, forgiveness, and reconciliation.
A.
“Within the medical system, apologies remain controversial.
Physicians often wish to apologize to patients harmed by medical
errors, but they may not disclose errors to patients and their families
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because of the concern that disclosing errors could increase the
likelihood of a malpractice claim. However, greater utilization of full
apologies could in turn create a more transparent health care system.”
(. Yale Law J 114:85–148, 2004)
B.
This example explores the potential dangers of apologizing while also
shining light on the chance of reconciliation when it does occur. It’s
difficult for a physician to apologize, and even more difficult for a
patient or family to trust the physician again but acceptance of one’s
error that contributed to the conflict can prove to be a therapeutic
learning system for physicians and a therapeutic healing system for
patients and families. Not all apologies are forgiven, not all
forgiveness is forgotten, but moving forward from the conflict is
always a solution.
A conflict can happen anywhere and between anyone and while it’s not an easy ordeal to
work through, it can be a growing opportunity for those involved. There are many components to
conflicts, as mentioned above. Power, negotiation, apologizing, forgiving, and reconciliation.
There are also many components that may stand in the way of these things from happening. The
day after my daughter’s dehydration incident I utilized the tools that were available by making
the head nurse aware of the situation. I utilized her power to negotiate with him and ultimately
had him removed from my daughter’s case. While I do not know the outcome for this doctor, I
did receive an apology from the nurses. I forgave this doctor, but I never forgot what he did and
spoke. The forgiveness was a great example of “forgiven, but not forgotten.” Reconciliation was
never necessary and ultimately, my daughter was discharged a week later. A conflict may be
difficult, but someone will always learn a thing or two from it and hopefully that will help them
grow as a parent, a professional, or a human in general.
Resources
Bibas S, Bierschbach RA: Integrating remorse and apology into criminal procedure.
Yale Law
J 114:85–148, 2004
Gawande A: Being Mortal. Medicine and What Matters in the End [Kindle edition].
New York: Henry Holt and Co, 2014
Jandt, F. E. (2021). Conflict and communication (2nd ed.). Cognella.
Levi DL: The role of apology in mediation. NYU Law Rev 72:1165–210, 1997