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Trenton Jones
Department of Home and Family, Brigham Young University-Idaho
FAML 200: Preparation for Marriage
Sister Eliason
November 25, 2023
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Touch
Define and Describe
The sense of touch is a crucial aspect that enables us to perceive and connect with our
surroundings. In this chapter, the discussion revolves around sex, an inherent element of
emotional relationships and the physical and emotional connections we can establish. It is
intriguing to observe how societal norms regarding sex have evolved over time, from abstinence
to marriage to friendships with benefits. The conclusion drawn is that engaging in sex carries
emotional and relational consequences, challenging the stereotype that men can have sex without
such repercussions, as stated by John Van Epp (2007, p. 288).
A noteworthy aspect to ponder is how "sex changes relationships." The investigations conducted
shed light on the potential impact of sex and its aftermath. The example of Tiffany and Derrick
illustrates how a lack of attention and interest can lead to feelings of anger and vulnerability.
Additionally, overconfidence and dependence on the partner, as seen in Tiffany's case, highlight
the potential for emotional hurt.
As additional information, the study emphasizes the increased risk of divorce in premarital
relationships and the scientific correlation between violating the law of chastity and a
predisposition to infidelity. John Van Epp (2007) notes, "Still, involvement with just one sexual
partner other than her husband during the dating years raised a woman's risk of divorce three
times higher than that of the woman who had sex with only her husband" (pp. 294-295).
Gospel
I would like to commence by quoting the author on the topic "More Premarital Sex Equals Fewer
Faithful Marriages": "A second way that your premarital sexual patterns can affect your future
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marriage is that the more sexual partners you have, the lower your ability to stay faithful in
marriage."
The family, established as the central component of the plan of salvation, plays a pivotal role in
ensuring the happiness of its members. Conversely, divorce, a consequence often linked to the
violation of the law of chastity, poses a threat to this happiness. Scientific studies cited in this
context highlight the influence of an active sex life before marriage and its consequences. The
law of chastity is presented as a safeguard against such outcomes, directly addressing the effects
of violating this law (John Van Epp, 2007, p. 296).
"This is a truth of life: beliefs change behavior, and behavior changes beliefs" (John Van Epp,
2007, p. 296). This statement encapsulates a key principle in the gospel, emphasizing the
importance of living it. Adhering to this commandment brings blessings, such as increased
openness to the influence of the Holy Ghost, courage in facing trials, God's support, and the
ability to set an example for one's family and others. True happiness, according to the text, stems
from obeying God's commandments.
Apply
In this dimension, touch encompasses various aspects, including sexuality, actions,
thoughts, and words. It goes beyond mere sexual abstinence, acknowledging that everything
begins with a thought. The brochure on the law of chastity provides suggestions on how to
maintain it: "To keep the law of chastity, you must replace undesirable thoughts, words, and
actions with wholesome ones."
The key to applying this dimension to my life lies in following the advice given by
prophets regarding chastity. Personally, this poses a challenge, especially given external
influences such as the music I listen to. The struggle is not confined to the moment of
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committing a transgression; it extends to any thoughts and feelings that run counter to the law of
chastity.
As a married individual with a family, I recognize the adversary's intent to undermine
what I am building. Human nature's inclination towards sin makes it difficult to uphold
covenants. A phrase from my mission president resonates: "What are you willing to do to break
the cycle of your parents?" Having witnessed the pain caused by infidelity in my own family, I
am determined not to repeat the mistakes of the past and spare my children the suffering I
endured.
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References
The Church of JesusChrist of Latter-day Saints. "Chastidy." Web.
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-topics/chastity?lang=eng
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Gottman, J. (2011, October 29).
John Gottman on Trust and Betrayal
. Berkley.
https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/john_gottman_on_trust_and_betrayal
Van Epp, J. (2007).
How to avoid falling in love with a jerk: The foolproof way to follow your
heart without losing your mind.
Dubuque, IA: McGraw-Hill Contemporary Learning.