Saving Her Sister's Life by Marissa Ayala, Teen Vogue In 1990, Marissa Ayala's birth stirred a national debate-should families conceive one child years older to save another's life? In her own words, 18-year-old Marissa shares her story. My sister, Anissa, is like my second mom. Even though she's 18 than me, I don't know how much closer you could be with someone. In 1988, when she was 16, Anissa was diagnosed with leukemia¹. If she didn't find a bone marrow donor, doctors said, she would die within three to five years. My parents weren't matches, so for a few years they went through every organization they could-the Life-Savers Foundation of America, the National Marrow Donor Program, City of Hope-to find donors. They couldn't find a single match. At the time, the Hispanic rating for the National Marrow Donor Program was practically nonexistent, which means there were hardly any Hispanics on the list as donors. Since that's our heritage, it wasn't likely my parents would find someone who could work as a match for my sister. Because matches are more common within families than with nonrelatives, every single extended family member got tested, but none of them matched with Anissa. Finally, one of my mom's best friends said as a joke, "Mary, you should have another baby." My mom, who was 43 at the time, thought her friend was crazy. But one night my mom dreamed that God was telling her to have a baby. She took that as a sign, and in April, 1990, I was born. My parents were hoping I would be a match. When I was old enough to be tested, I turned out to be a perfect match for my sister. My family was really excited and had me donate bone marrow to her 14 months after I was born-my marrow was transplanted into hers to stimulate healthy blood-cell growth. It was a total success. I recovered perfectly-my parents even have a video of me running around the same day I had my surgery. Although at first my sister had to be in an isolation room for a while so that no germs could get to her, she recovered well. She's been cancer-free for the past 18 years. There has always been a lot of media attention surrounding our family because of our situation, though. It was apparently really controversial that my parents were
Saving Her Sister's Life by Marissa Ayala, Teen Vogue In 1990, Marissa Ayala's birth stirred a national debate-should families conceive one child years older to save another's life? In her own words, 18-year-old Marissa shares her story. My sister, Anissa, is like my second mom. Even though she's 18 than me, I don't know how much closer you could be with someone. In 1988, when she was 16, Anissa was diagnosed with leukemia¹. If she didn't find a bone marrow donor, doctors said, she would die within three to five years. My parents weren't matches, so for a few years they went through every organization they could-the Life-Savers Foundation of America, the National Marrow Donor Program, City of Hope-to find donors. They couldn't find a single match. At the time, the Hispanic rating for the National Marrow Donor Program was practically nonexistent, which means there were hardly any Hispanics on the list as donors. Since that's our heritage, it wasn't likely my parents would find someone who could work as a match for my sister. Because matches are more common within families than with nonrelatives, every single extended family member got tested, but none of them matched with Anissa. Finally, one of my mom's best friends said as a joke, "Mary, you should have another baby." My mom, who was 43 at the time, thought her friend was crazy. But one night my mom dreamed that God was telling her to have a baby. She took that as a sign, and in April, 1990, I was born. My parents were hoping I would be a match. When I was old enough to be tested, I turned out to be a perfect match for my sister. My family was really excited and had me donate bone marrow to her 14 months after I was born-my marrow was transplanted into hers to stimulate healthy blood-cell growth. It was a total success. I recovered perfectly-my parents even have a video of me running around the same day I had my surgery. Although at first my sister had to be in an isolation room for a while so that no germs could get to her, she recovered well. She's been cancer-free for the past 18 years. There has always been a lot of media attention surrounding our family because of our situation, though. It was apparently really controversial that my parents were
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