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3) Despite purdah women in urban areas have a lot of freedoms that their counterparts in the rural areas do not have. What are these freedoms and how do women employ them ?
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Harvard professors Cherry Lindholm and Charles
Lindholm metaphorically remove the veil from
Moslem women in Pakistan, who are of a strict
purdah society, to reveal how this "institution of
female seclusion" influences all Pakhtun societal
practices and institutions.
The bazaar teems with activity. Pedestrians
throng the narrow streets, wending past donkey
carts, cyclists, and overloaded vehicles. Vendors
haggle in the dark doorways of their shops. Pitiful
beggars shuffle among the crowds, while bearded
religious mendicants wander about, their eyes
fixed on a distant world.
Drifting among the mobs of men are, here and
there, anonymous figures hidden beneath volumi-
nous folds of material, who float along like ships in
full sail, graceful, mysterious, faceless, instilling in
the observer a sense both of awe and of curiosity.
These are the Moslem women of the Middle East.
Their dress is the customary chador, which they
wear when obliged to leave the privacy of their
homes. The chador is but one means by which
women maintain their purdah, the institution of
female seclusion, which requires that women
should remain unseen by men who are not close
relatives and strikes Westerners as so totally for-
eign and incomprehensible.
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Sometimes the alien aspect is tempered with a
touch of Western familiarity. A pair of plastic
sunglasses may gleam from behind the lace that
covers the eyes, or a platform shoe might peep
forth from beneath the hem of the flowing chador.
Nevertheless, the overall presence remains one of
inscrutability and is perhaps the most striking
image of Middle Eastern societies.
We spent nine months in one of the most
strict of all the purdah societies, the Yusufzai
Pakhtun of the Swat Valley in the North-West
Frontier Province of Pakistan. ("Pakhtun" is the
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in the home or the grave." Years ago in Swat, if a
woman broke her purdah, her husband might kill
her or cut off her nose as punishment and as a
means of cleansing his honor. If a woman is
caught alone with an unrelated man, it will al-
ways be assumed that the liaison is sexual, and
public opinion will oblige her husband to shoot
her, even if he does not desire her death; to go un-
avenged is to be known henceforth as begherata,
or man without honor. As such, he would no
longer have the right to call himself Pakhtun.
A shameless woman is a threat to the whole so-
ciety. Our host remembered witnessing, thirty
years ago when he was a child, the entire village
stoning an adulteress. This punishment is pre-
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We had come to the Swat Valley after a hair-
raising ride on a rickety bus from Peshawar
over the 10,280-foot Malakand Pass. Winston
Churchill came this way as a young war corre-
spondent attached to the Malakand Field Force in
1897. As we came into the valley, about half the
size of Connecticut, we passed a sign that said
WELCOME TO SWAT. We were fortunate to have
entrée into the community through a Swati friend
we had made eight years before. In Swat, women
are secluded inside the domestic compound except
for family rituals, such as marriage, circumcision,
and funerals, or visits to saint's tombs. A woman
must always be in the protective company of other
women and is never allowed out alone. It tells a
great deal about the community that the word for
husband in Pakhto, the language of the Pakhtun,
is kwawund, which also means God.
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However, as everywhere, rules are sometimes
broken or, more frequently, cleverly manipulated.
Our Pakhtun host's stepmother, Bibi, an intelli-
gent and forceful woman, was renowned for her
tactics. Once, when all the females of the house-
hold had been forbidden to leave the compound to
receive cholera inoculations at the temporary
clinic next door, Bibi respectfully bowed her head
and assured the men they could visit the mosque
with easy minds. Once the men had gone, she
promptly climbed the ladder to the flat roof and
summoned the doctor to the door of her com-
pound. One by one, the women extended their
bare arms through the doorway and received their
shots. Later Bibi could honestly swear that no
woman had set foot outside the compound walls,
Despite such circumventions, purdah is of
paramount importance in Swat. As one Pakhtun
proverb succinctly states: "The woman's place is
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and some middle-aged and even young men ad-
mitted to us that they had lost their interest in
women. Sometimes, though rarely, a young bride-
groom will find himself incapable of consummat-
ing his marriage, either because he finds his bride
unattractive or because he has been previously en-
chanted by a male lover and has become impotent
in a heterosexual relationship. Homosexuality has
never been seen as aberrant in the Middle East.
As a famous Afghan saying humorously declares:
"A woman is for bearing children, a boy is for.
pleasure, but ecstasy is a ripe watermelon!" How-
→?
ever, with Western influence, homosexuality in
the Middle East is now less overt. But even when
it was common and open, the man was still ex-
pected to marry and produce children.
Men must marry, though women are regarded
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in the home or the grave." Years ago in Swat, if a
woman broke her purdah, her husband might kill
her or cut off her nose as punishment and as a
means of cleansing his honor. If a woman is
caught alone with an unrelated man, it will al-
ways be assumed that the liaison is sexual, and
public opinion will oblige her husband to shoot
her, even if he does not desire her death; to go un-
avenged is to be known henceforth as begherata,
or man without honor. As such, he would no
longer have the right to call himself Pakhtun.
A shameless woman is a threat to the whole so-
ciety. Our host remembered witnessing, thirty
years ago when he was a child, the entire village
stoning an adulteress. This punishment is pre-
scribed by Islamic law, though the law requires
there be four witnesses to the sexual act itself to
establish guilt. Nowadays, punishments for wifely
misdemeanors have become less harsh, though
adulterous wives are still killed.
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In the rural areas, poorer families generally
cannot maintain purdah as rigorously as their
wealthier neighbors, for often a wife must help
her husband in the fields or become a servant.
Nevertheless, she is required to keep her hair
covered at all times and to interact with men to a
minimum. Here again, the rules are sometimes
flouted, and a poor woman might entice a man
with her eyes, or even, according to village men
who claimed personal experiences, become more
aggressive in her seductive attempts and actually
seize a man in a deserted alleyway and lure him
into her house. Often, the man is persuaded.
Such a woman will accept money from her lover,
who is usually a man from a wealthy family. Her
husband is then a begherata, but some men ac-
quiesce to the situation because of the money the
wife is earning or because of fear of the wife's so-
cially superior and more powerful lover. But
most poor men, and certainly all the elite, keep
their women under strict control.
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In the Islamic Middle East, women are viewed
as powerful and dangerous beings, highly sexual
and lacking in personal discipline and discrimina-
tion. In Middle Eastern thought, sexual inter-
course itself, though polluting, lacks the same
negative connotations it has in the West. It has al-
ways been believed that women have sexual cli-
maxes, and there is no notion of female frigidity.
Male impotence, however, is well-documented,
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and some middle-aged and even young men ad-
mitted to us that they had lost their interest in
women. Sometimes, though rarely, a young bride-
groom will find himself incapable of consummat-
ing his marriage, either because he finds his bride
unattractive or because he has been previously en-
chanted by a male lover and has become impotent
in a heterosexual relationship. Homosexuality has
never been seen as aberrant in the Middle East.
As a famous Afghan saying humorously declares:
"A woman is for bearing children, a boy is for.
pleasure, but ecstasy is a ripe watermelon!" How-
ever, with Western influence, homosexuality in
the Middle East is now less overt. But even when
it was common and open, the man was still ex-
pected to marry and produce children.
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head or across the shoulders; she may even decide
to adopt modest Western dress. The extent of this
transformation will depend partly upon the atti-
tude of the community in which she lives.
In the urban centers of the stricter purdah re-
gions the public display of purdah is scrupulous,
sometimes even more striking than that of the
tribal village. Behind the scenes, though, the
city-dwelling woman does have more freedom
than she would have in the village. She will be
able to visit not only relatives but friends without
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Men must marry, though women are regarded
as a chaotic and anarchic force. They are believed
to possess many times the sexual desire of men
and constitute a potential threat to the family and
the family's honor, which is based in large mea-
sure on the possession and control of women and
their excessive and dangerous sexuality.
Among the Pakhtun of Swat, where the male-
female relation is one of the most hostile in the
Middle East, the man avoids showing affection
to his wife, for fear she will become too self-
confident and will begin to assert herself in ways
that insult his position and honor. She may start
by leaving the compound without his permission
and, if unchecked, may end by bringing outside
men into the house for sexual encounters, secure
in the knowledge that her husband, weakened by
his affection for her, will not take action. This
course of events is considered inevitable by men
and women alike and was illustrated by a few ac-
tual cases in the village where we lived.
Women are therefore much feared, despite the
pronouncements of male supremacy. They must
be controlled, in order to prevent their alarming
basic natures from coming to the fore and causing
dishonor to their own lineages. Purdah is gener-
ally described as a system that serves to protect
the woman, but implicitly it protects the men and
society in general from the potentially disruptive
actions of the powerful female sex.
Changes are occurring, however, particularly
in the modern urban centers. The educated urban
woman often dispenses with the chador replacing
it with a simple length of veiling draped over the
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The Middle Eastern kinship system is known
to anthropologists as a segmentary-lineage orga-
nization; the basic idea is that kinship is traced
through one line only. In the Middle East, the sys-
tem is patrilineal, which means that the male line
is followed, and all the links through women are
ignored. An individual can therefore trace his re-
lationship to any other individual in the society
and know the exact genealogical distance between
them; i.e., the distance that must be traced to
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