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1 Proclamation Project Paper Dixie Drowns Home and Family Department, BYU-Idaho FAML: 100 Sister Sherry Cowen December 10, 2023
2 Explanations of Intention I chose to make a booklet for my Family Proclamation Project. I thought making a booklet would be the most effective way to convey my ideas since I enjoy being creative when writing. My perceptions of the chapters did not originate from a married woman with children because I am single and do not have any children of my own. My overarching objective was to demonstrate to my audience the centrality of everlasting marriages and families in the plan of our heavenly Father. I aimed for clarity, simplicity, and readability in my brochure. Anyone can gain from my perspectives and put them into practice in their own lives. My intended audience was young single/married adults. For the most part, I began each section by quoting passages from The Family: A Proclamation to the World or a leader in the church so that my listeners would understand what I was getting at. Audience/Presentation I produced the pamphlets and distributed them among the younger individuals who are either single or married within my family. I personally delivered a pamphlet to six of my nieces and instructed them to read it and inform me of their completion via telephone. All my nieces came back with positive feedback. They all gained a new understanding of all that was written about. I designed the pamphlet to possess a minimalist aesthetic, characterized by its simplicity, cleanliness, and absence of unnecessary elements on the pages. I believe that this enhances readability and reduces distractions. Two of my nieces are affiliated with the church, while the remaining four are not. I aspired to facilitate an in-depth understanding of the principles of matrimony and the significance of familial bonds among these young women. Gaining a full understanding of the marital covenant and the methods to attain contentment in a marriage are
3 pivotal in a relationship, as well as in accomplishing prosperity in nurturing a family. I aimed to enhance the level of interest and provide them with novel perspectives that they have not yet encountered. I articulated the knowledge I acquired from reading the chapters and attempted to express it in a manner that is understandable. Evaluation In general, I believe that the goals I set for my project were carried out successfully. The amount of effort that I have put into each of the sections is something that I am extremely proud of. To leave a lasting impression on the reader, I spent a significant amount of time perfecting those sections. Despite this, there were times during the semester when I put off reading, and then I had to rush through my reading to ensure that I finished it on time. Consequently, I was unable to experience a sense of personal fulfillment because I came to the realization that the primary motivation behind my writing was the desire to cater to the preferences of my audience, rather than expressing my own genuine impressions. When it came to reading, I wanted to maintain a higher level of responsibility than I had previously done. Application of Learning The first topic I wrote about was “Creating a Foundation of Love and Respect in Families”. I wrote about how marriage is a shared search for the good, beautiful, and divine, and it is critical to build a strong foundation of love and respect within families. I explained that recognizing the unique strengths of both men and women, making informed marriage decisions, raising children in love and righteousness, navigating fertility trends with faith, and maintaining marital commitment are all essential for building a thriving family. I spoke on how parents have a divine responsibility to instill values in their children such as faith, prayer, repentance,
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4 forgiveness, and respect, assisting them in developing strong moral character and a strong connection with their Heavenly Parent. Regardless of changing fertility trends, it is critical to remain faithful to God's plan for families and to put faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, and respect into practice. Couples can ensure a happy and successful marriage by focusing on these principles and creating a loving and harmonious home for themselves and their children. The second topic I wrote about was “Choosing the Right Partner”. I explained that marriage is a sacred union between two individuals committed to building a life together. It requires love, trust, and compatibility. Choosing the right partner is crucial for a lasting and fulfilling marriage. The key factors I included were shared values and beliefs, effective communication, mutual respect and support, shared interests and hobbies, conflict resolution skills, trust and loyalty, and a shared vision for the future. I explained a partner should align with your core principles and moral compass, be open to communication and understanding, and respect your dreams, goals, and individuality. I emphasized that shared interests and hobbies can strengthen the bond, while conflict resolution skills are essential for a healthy and respectful relationship. Trust and loyalty are crucial for a strong marriage, and a shared vision for the future is essential for a successful marriage. I said that choosing the right partner is a decision that should be taken seriously, and your journey together should be filled with love, joy, and fulfillment. The third topic was “Parenting with Love and Gospel Principles”. I explained that parenting requires love and gospel principles and is rewarding. A strong family is built on love, which fosters belonging and self-esteem. I talked about how gospel principles guide parenting, teaching children's divinity and spiritual growth. They teach kids about their divine identity,
5 purpose in life, and the value of prayer and spiritual guidance. Additionally, I said that children must learn the power of forgiveness and the importance of forgiving others. Also important is teaching children to respect themselves and others, regardless of disagreements. I wrote that parenting with love and gospel principles takes patience, perseverance, and growth throughout life. It nurtures children and helps them grow into their best selves, which has immeasurable benefits. I said that parents should love unconditionally, teach patiently, and guide with wisdom and faith. The fourth topic was “The Key to a Strong and Committed Marriage”. I explained that marriage is a solemn vow between two people who promise to love, support, and cherish one another for the rest of their lives. A strong and dedicated marriage is the result of deliberate work. I wrote about the essential components: honest and open dialogue; trust; quality time together; mutual regard; common objectives and principles; dispute resolution; emotional support; and ongoing development. I then explained the following: Building trust requires being truthful, dependable, and transparent, while good communication promotes comprehension, empathy, and connection. Intimate time together strengthens relationships and makes memories that will last a lifetime. In a respectful and caring community, everyone can lean on each other for support, and when people have common values and objectives, it's easier to bring everyone together. Emotional support is there to reassure and uplift when times get tough, while conflict resolution is about actively listening, compromising, and understanding. Maintaining a healthy and dedicated marriage requires a lifetime of learning and development from both partners. Patience, investment, and a desire to invest in each other's growth are necessary for embracing this lifelong journey.
6 The fifth topic was “Promoting Equal Family Relationships”. I wrote about the roles of parents. Fathers provide and protect their families, while mothers raise them. I wanted them to understand that the restored gospel of Jesus Christ teaches equal partnership between men and women, making The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints unique. Equal partnerships improve relationship happiness, health, parenting efficacy, and child development, research shows. I wanted to get across that equality reduces aggression and violence, and both partners benefit from the other's knowledge and experience. Unequal partnerships cause unhealthy marriages, mental health issues, and crime. I explained that power distribution in marriages must be examined to promote equality. Power-related speech and behavior include dominance and aggression. I wanted them to understand that these scales can help evaluate relationships and promote marital equality. The sixth topic I spoke about was “Embracing Gods Plan for Fertility and Family”. Latter-day Saints emphasize the family's divine role in God's eternal plan. They believe only legally married men and women can procreate. I explained that the proclamation depicts a vibrant, diverse family full of love, unity, and joy. One must honor marriage, accept men and women's divine roles, prioritize family over worldly pursuits, teach and live gospel principles, and trust in God's timing to embrace God's plan for fertility and family. I wanted them to know that families can be blessed with love, unity, and joy by following God's plan and that this lifelong journey requires faith, prayer, and following His teachings. One can pass on faith and righteousness by following God's fertility and family plan. The seventh topic I wrote about was “Overcoming challenges in Marriages with Forgiveness”. I explained that a successful marriage requires forgiveness to overcome obstacles,
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7 heal wounds, and grow together. It fosters love and understanding, releasing resentment, and strengthening relationships. I wrote that by reflecting on mistakes, communicating openly, practicing empathy, letting go of grudges, and seeking professional help, it can help us forgive. I shared that adopting forgiveness daily means apologizing for mistakes, forgiving oneself, and celebrating progress. To forgive takes time and effort, but the rewards are immeasurable, including a stronger, more resilient, and happier marriage. I tried to get across that forgiveness helps couples overcome obstacles, heal wounds, and grow together. The eighth topic I wrote about was “The Power of Faith in Strengthening Marriages”. I wrote about how faith can strengthen marriages by providing a solid foundation and bringing couples closer. It promotes shared values, trust, commitment, support, forgiveness, and love. Couples who share values and beliefs feel united and purposeful, helping them overcome obstacles and make important decisions. Faith also teaches trust and commitment, helping couples weather any storm. It comforts and inspires through prayer and faith community. Faith reminds us that we are imperfect and need forgiveness, so forgiveness and grace are important. Finally, religion encourages couples to show love and affection through religious services, spiritual practices, and service. By incorporating faith into their marriage, couples can cement their bond. The ninth topic I wrote about was “Understanding the importance of an Eternal Family”. I wanted them to know the divine plan of happiness allows families to be united eternally and individuals to return to God. I emphasized that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints' "The Family Proclamation" emphasizes strong marriages and the family's divine role in God's eternal plan. I explained that we treat each other with respect and kindness when we recognize
8 their divinity. I explained the importance of recognizing and accepting our gender identity to help us fulfill our divine family roles. I talked about how parents have the sacred duty of raising children in love and righteousness, providing a nurturing and supportive environment to help them develop strong moral values, self-worth, and a deep understanding of their divine potential. Conclusion I am immensely appreciative of the chance to write and create my project discussing the value of marriage and family. The fact that I am single and without children now does not mean that I cannot put what I have learned into practice. My biggest takeaway is the importance of cultivating the traits I hope to find in a life partner. I came to realize that it is necessary for me to refrain from harboring resentment, even after I have reconciled. Above all, I have acquired a more profound conviction of my Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ and have comprehended the significance of families in God's grand scheme.
9 References Craig H. Hart, L. D. (n.d.). Parenting with Love, Limits, and Latitude:Proclamation Principles and Supportive Scholarship. In D. D. A.J. Hawkins, Successful Marriages and Families: Proclamation Principles and Research Perspectives. (pp. 103-115). BYU Bookstore Publishing Services. Retrieved from https://online.vitalsource.com/books/9780842528030 E. Jeffrey Hill, S. J. (n.d.). Modern Fertility Patterns and God's Commandment to Multiply and Replenish the Earth. In D. D. A.J. Hawkins, Successful Marriages and Families: Proclamation Principles and Research Perspectives (pp. 151-159). BYU Bookstore Publishing Services. Retrieved from https://online.vitalsource.com/books/9780842528030 Hendricks, E. W. (n.d.). Repentance and Forgiveness in Family Life. In D. D. A.J. Hawkins, Successful Marriages and Families: Proclamation Principles and Research Perspectives (pp. 201-211). BYU Bookstore Publishing Services. Retrieved from https://online.vitalsource.com/books/9780842528030 Judd, D. K. (n.d.). The Eternal Family: A Plan and Precious Part of the Plan of Salvation. In D. D. A.J. Hawkins, Successful Marriages and Families: Proclamation Principles and Research Perspectives (pp. 343-351). Retrieved from https://online.vitalsource.com/books/9780842528030 Lambert, N. M. (n.d.). Sanctification and Cooperation: How Prayer Helps Strengthen Relationships in Good Times and Heal Relationships in Bad Times. In D. D. A.J. Hawkins, Successful Marriages and Families: Proclamation Principles and Research Perspectives (pp. 196-199). Retrieved from https://online.vitalsource.com/books/9780842528030 Miller, a. M. (n.d.). Equal Partnership between Men and Women in Families. In D. D. A.J. Hawkins, Successful Marriages and Families: Proclamation Principles and Research Perspectives (pp. 38- 44). BYU Bookstore Publishing Services. Retrieved from https://online.vitalsource.com/books/9780842528030 Thomas B. Holman, F. P. (n.d.). The ABCs of Successful Romantic Relationship Development: Meeting, Dating, and Choosing an Eternal Companion. In D. D. A.J. Hawkins, Successful Marriages and Families: Proclamation Principles and Research Perspectives (pp. 16-24). BYU Bookstore Publishing Service. Retrieved from https://online.vitalsource.com/books/9780842528030 Zasukha, S. F. (n.d.). Foundational Processes for an Enduring, Healthy Marriage. In D. D. A.J. Hawkins, Successful Marriages and Families: Proclamation Principles and Research Perspectives. (pp. 27- 35). BYU Bookstore Publishing Services. Retrieved from https://online.vitalsource.com/books/9780842528030
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