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Proclamation Project Paper
Dixie Drowns
Home and Family Department, BYU-Idaho
FAML: 100
Sister Sherry Cowen
December 10, 2023
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Explanations of Intention
I chose to make a booklet for my Family Proclamation Project. I thought making a
booklet would be the most effective way to convey my ideas since I enjoy being creative when
writing.
My perceptions of the chapters did not originate from a married woman with children
because I am single and do not have any children of my own. My overarching objective was to
demonstrate to my audience the centrality of everlasting marriages and families in the plan of our
heavenly Father. I aimed for clarity, simplicity, and readability in my brochure. Anyone can gain
from my perspectives and put them into practice in their own lives. My intended audience was
young single/married adults. For the most part, I began each section by quoting passages from
The Family: A Proclamation to the World or a leader in the church so that my listeners would
understand what I was getting at.
Audience/Presentation
I produced the pamphlets and distributed them among the younger individuals who are
either single or married within my family. I personally delivered a pamphlet to six of my nieces
and instructed them to read it and inform me of their completion via telephone. All my nieces
came back with positive feedback. They all gained a new understanding of all that was written
about.
I designed the pamphlet to possess a minimalist aesthetic, characterized by its simplicity,
cleanliness, and absence of unnecessary elements on the pages. I believe that this enhances
readability and reduces distractions.
Two of my nieces are affiliated with the church, while the
remaining four are not. I aspired to facilitate an in-depth understanding of the principles of
matrimony and the significance of familial bonds among these young women. Gaining a full
understanding of the marital covenant and the methods to attain contentment in a marriage are
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pivotal in a relationship, as well as in accomplishing prosperity in nurturing a family.
I aimed to
enhance the level of interest and provide them with novel perspectives that they have not yet
encountered. I articulated the knowledge I acquired from reading the chapters and attempted to
express it in a manner that is understandable.
Evaluation
In general, I believe that the goals I set for my project were carried out successfully. The
amount of effort that I have put into each of the sections is something that I am extremely proud
of. To leave a lasting impression on the reader, I spent a significant amount of time perfecting
those sections. Despite this, there were times during the semester when I put off reading, and
then I had to rush through my reading to ensure that I finished it on time. Consequently, I was
unable to experience a sense of personal fulfillment because I came to the realization that the
primary motivation behind my writing was the desire to cater to the preferences of my audience,
rather than expressing my own genuine impressions. When it came to reading, I wanted to
maintain a higher level of responsibility than I had previously done.
Application of Learning
The first topic I wrote about was “Creating a Foundation of Love and Respect in
Families”. I wrote about how marriage is a shared search for the good, beautiful, and divine, and
it is critical to build a strong foundation of love and respect within families. I explained that
recognizing the unique strengths of both men and women, making informed marriage decisions,
raising children in love and righteousness, navigating fertility trends with faith, and maintaining
marital commitment are all essential for building a thriving family. I spoke on how parents have
a divine responsibility to instill values in their children such as faith, prayer, repentance,
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forgiveness, and respect, assisting them in developing strong moral character and a strong
connection with their Heavenly Parent. Regardless of changing fertility trends, it is critical to
remain faithful to God's plan for families and to put faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, and
respect into practice. Couples can ensure a happy and successful marriage by focusing on these
principles and creating a loving and harmonious home for themselves and their children.
The second topic I wrote about was “Choosing the Right Partner”. I explained that
marriage is a sacred union between two individuals committed to building a life together. It
requires love, trust, and compatibility. Choosing the right partner is crucial for a lasting and
fulfilling marriage. The key factors I included were shared values and beliefs, effective
communication, mutual respect and support, shared interests and hobbies, conflict resolution
skills, trust and loyalty, and a shared vision for the future. I explained a partner should align with
your core principles and moral compass, be open to communication and understanding, and
respect your dreams, goals, and individuality. I emphasized that shared interests and hobbies can
strengthen the bond, while conflict resolution skills are essential for a healthy and respectful
relationship. Trust and loyalty are crucial for a strong marriage, and a shared vision for the future
is essential for a successful marriage. I said that choosing the right partner is a decision that
should be taken seriously, and your journey together should be filled with love, joy, and
fulfillment.
The third topic was “Parenting with Love and Gospel Principles”.
I explained that
parenting requires love and gospel principles and is rewarding. A strong family is built on love,
which fosters belonging and self-esteem. I talked about how gospel principles guide parenting,
teaching children's divinity and spiritual growth. They teach kids about their divine identity,
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purpose in life, and the value of prayer and spiritual guidance. Additionally, I said that children
must learn the power of forgiveness and the importance of forgiving others. Also important is
teaching children to respect themselves and others, regardless of disagreements. I wrote that
parenting with love and gospel principles takes patience, perseverance, and growth throughout
life. It nurtures children and helps them grow into their best selves, which has immeasurable
benefits. I said that parents should love unconditionally, teach patiently, and guide with wisdom
and faith.
The fourth topic was “The Key to a Strong and Committed Marriage”.
I explained that
marriage is a solemn vow between two people who promise to love, support, and cherish one
another for the rest of their lives. A strong and dedicated marriage is the result of deliberate
work. I wrote about the essential components: honest and open dialogue; trust; quality time
together; mutual regard; common objectives and principles; dispute resolution; emotional
support; and ongoing development. I then explained the following: Building trust requires being
truthful, dependable, and transparent, while good communication promotes comprehension,
empathy, and connection. Intimate time together strengthens relationships and makes memories
that will last a lifetime. In a respectful and caring community, everyone can lean on each other
for support, and when people have common values and objectives, it's easier to bring everyone
together. Emotional support is there to reassure and uplift when times get tough, while conflict
resolution is about actively listening, compromising, and understanding. Maintaining a healthy
and dedicated marriage requires a lifetime of learning and development from both partners.
Patience, investment, and a desire to invest in each other's growth are necessary for embracing
this lifelong journey.
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The fifth topic was “Promoting Equal Family Relationships”. I wrote about the roles of
parents. Fathers provide and protect their families, while mothers raise them. I wanted them to
understand that the restored gospel of Jesus Christ teaches equal partnership between men and
women, making The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints unique. Equal partnerships
improve relationship happiness, health, parenting efficacy, and child development, research
shows. I wanted to get across that equality reduces aggression and violence, and both partners
benefit from the other's knowledge and experience. Unequal partnerships cause unhealthy
marriages, mental health issues, and crime. I explained that power distribution in marriages must
be examined to promote equality. Power-related speech and behavior include dominance and
aggression. I wanted them to understand that these scales can help evaluate relationships and
promote marital equality.
The sixth topic I spoke about was “Embracing Gods Plan for Fertility and Family”.
Latter-day Saints emphasize the family's divine role in God's eternal plan. They believe only
legally married men and women can procreate. I explained that the proclamation depicts a
vibrant, diverse family full of love, unity, and joy. One must honor marriage, accept men and
women's divine roles, prioritize family over worldly pursuits, teach and live gospel principles,
and trust in God's timing to embrace God's plan for fertility and family. I wanted them to know
that families can be blessed with love, unity, and joy by following God's plan and that this
lifelong journey requires faith, prayer, and following His teachings. One can pass on faith and
righteousness by following God's fertility and family plan.
The seventh topic I wrote about was “Overcoming challenges in Marriages with
Forgiveness”.
I explained that a successful marriage requires forgiveness to overcome obstacles,
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heal wounds, and grow together. It fosters love and understanding, releasing resentment, and
strengthening relationships. I wrote that by reflecting on mistakes, communicating openly,
practicing empathy, letting go of grudges, and seeking professional help, it can help us forgive. I
shared that adopting forgiveness daily means apologizing for mistakes, forgiving oneself, and
celebrating progress. To forgive takes time and effort, but the rewards are immeasurable,
including a stronger, more resilient, and happier marriage. I tried to get across that forgiveness
helps couples overcome obstacles, heal wounds, and grow together.
The eighth topic I wrote about was “The Power of Faith in Strengthening Marriages”. I
wrote about how faith can strengthen marriages by providing a solid foundation and bringing
couples closer. It promotes shared values, trust, commitment, support, forgiveness, and love.
Couples who share values and beliefs feel united and purposeful, helping them overcome
obstacles and make important decisions. Faith also teaches trust and commitment, helping
couples weather any storm. It comforts and inspires through prayer and faith community. Faith
reminds us that we are imperfect and need forgiveness, so forgiveness and grace are important.
Finally, religion encourages couples to show love and affection through religious services,
spiritual practices, and service. By incorporating faith into their marriage, couples can cement
their bond.
The ninth topic I wrote about was “Understanding the importance of an Eternal Family”.
I wanted them to know the divine plan of happiness allows families to be united eternally and
individuals to return to God.
I emphasized that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints'
"The Family Proclamation" emphasizes strong marriages and the family's divine role in God's
eternal plan. I explained that we treat each other with respect and kindness when we recognize
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their divinity. I explained the importance of recognizing and accepting our gender identity to
help us fulfill our divine family roles. I talked about how parents have the sacred duty of raising
children in love and righteousness, providing a nurturing and supportive environment to help
them develop strong moral values, self-worth, and a deep understanding of their divine potential.
Conclusion
I am immensely appreciative of the chance to write and create my project discussing the
value of marriage and family. The fact that I am single and without children now does not mean
that I cannot put what I have learned into practice. My biggest takeaway is the importance of
cultivating the traits I hope to find in a life partner. I came to realize that it is necessary for me to
refrain from harboring resentment, even after I have reconciled. Above all, I have acquired a
more profound conviction of my Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ and have comprehended the
significance of families in God's grand scheme.
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